Happy December! How was your holiday? I really hope last month was a good one for you. Let me tell you, we are in the final stretch. Certainly we are going to make it all count. It going to be great month for sure .
I feel like December is going to be full sparkle. It time to refocus and make each day count. I plan to spend time with my family, and also work on how I communicate with others. Honestly, last month was a very hard for me. On the happy side of things, I found LOVE. Then on the other side, I had to deal with coping with my anxiety, and being vulnerable. November was heaving month but I thankful for every moment. Although it was hard, I still learned a lot to be better for myself.
So let’s get into this blog. In today’s post I am keeping it brief I am reflecting and sharing my personal goals for the moth of December!
Related: First of November
PERSONAL NOTE/ GOALS
LETS REFLECT FIRST, MADE A LOT OF CHANGES LAST MONTH 🙂
Last month as a mention before was hard one. Anxiety seem like it know when to push your button especially when you are happy and living life. Now we all know that trauma and grief does not go away. In addition, to my grief and trauma it is something that I have to battle with everyday. Over time I learn how to cope and use health distraction however, it easier said then done. I learn that again I can’t simply just shoo away my feelings. I have to start dealing with no matter how uncomfortable they are. In addition, I have to work through my anxiety and stop worrying what I think other my say. What do I say? What do I think?
I say all this say is I need to be more kind to myself I can be worst enemy and I have. My anxiety is myself and it November I was treating myself bad. I was unkind myself. So how do I move forward in December
In December my goal is alway work on my self awareness. I know my sound like a broken record however I have to grateful, and speak kind words into myself out loud. The intention I set for the month of December is to give myself grace everyday.
December Affirmation for Grace
I extend the same kindness to myself that I show my loved ones
IN THE MONTH OF DECEMBER MY GOALS ARE…
- Give myself time to pray and meditate in the morning and at night.
- Continue to journal everyday
- Work on time management by setting measurable and attainable goals for myself.
- When I am feeling stress out at work, take a day off or use my coping skill technique I learn for anxious moments
- Improve on following through for myself. Take action and trust in my skillset
- Commit to buying from 1-2 black owned business or donate to organization that benefits the Black community, or the underprivileged once a month.
- Say no- stand up for myself.
- Remember to be kind to myself, Giving myself grace. Say one thing you love about yourself everyday.
- YOUTUBE Continuance. Produce 1 video each week to help grow my channel and influence.
BRIEF BLOG FASHION BLURB…
YOU KNOW I CAN’T FORGET ABOUT FASHION…. IT MY FIRST LOVE
On another note, My name is Alayna also know as FashionLayn and FASHION is my game. It is not a complete post until I share some fashion key essential and trends for the Winter season. Today, I am sharing all the essentials and trend you need grab for the winter.
Some of the most key essential for the Winter months are the following. My goal is incorporate more winter essentials into my wardrobe for capsule closet.
Winter Key Essentials Must Haves:
- Wool Coat
- Knee High Boots
- Faux leather leggings
- Cozy loungewear
- Sweater dresses | Knit dresses
In addition, we can’t forget about what is trending! Here are a few pieces that are trending this winter!
- Half Zip Knits
- Cloud coats
- Cargo pants
- Chunky cable knit sweater
- Leather trousers
- Deep Dark jeans
- Long sleeve winter dresses
You can shop all these pieces on the affordable size. Some of my favorite places to shop these pieces are thrift store, H&M, Amazon, Boohoo, SheIN, and Zara. Where do you like to shop for affordable winter essentials?
What are your winter essentials you are loving so far?
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Overall, month of December is going to be great month for me. The goal is to stay positive, be grateful, and to practice being kind to myself everyday . What are you looking forward to this month?
HOW WAS LAST MONTH FOR YOU? WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FORWARD TO THIS MONTH? WHAT ARE YOUR DECEMBER GOALS?
Share with me in the comment section. Let’s talk about sis!! I hope the month of DECEMBER is an amazing month for you.
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Love that you set monthly goals and take time to reflect on them. That is something I am doing as well. This month is starting out a little rough for me but I remind myself how blessed I am. As far as fashion goes I am loving wool coats. Just purchased a beautiful camel colored one 😍
Setting monthly goals are so important for me to be objective. Reflections help me get better each month. I love a camel color coat !! my favorite thing I shared last month