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Happy July! I am so happy to be here in this moment. Honestly, I don’t even know how I want to begin my introduction. I kinda have an idea that you are feeling it too. Maybe the world right now is not feeling the greatest about everything. It has been so many thing unfolding in the past few weeks that you really don’t know how to feel or how to move forward. However I am choosing to keep the ball rolling and pushing forward into the unknown. I don’t know what is happening but I am not going to not work through it. So, I am hoping my positive vibration reach you. I want you to continue to push forward and through all that is in front of you. So in July I am looking forward to working on my peace of mind, radiating positive energy, not giving my all to folks that don’t reciprocate my energy, and working on my time management with everything. What are you looking to this month?  The month of July, I am claiming it, it is going to be a great month for you and me. I know it  So what happening in July? …

Happy June! I am looking forward to this month. Definitely looking forward to being well and starting my business and more. In regards starting my own business, my soft launch is Friday! Last month my goal and focus was to make sure to trust in my abilities. That is exactly what I did and now I am launching a business. Yes a resale shop. I am so excited! Anyway, what are you looking to this month? The month of June, I am claiming it, it is going to be a great month for you and me. I know it So what happening in June? In today’s post I am sharing the a quick summer essentials highlighting basic wear. In addition, I am sharing my own personal goals & reflections! Let get into it. Related: What’s Happening, May? FASHION BLURB… WHAT’S HAPPENING? WHAT ON TREND OR IN STYLE… ESPECIALLY IN JUNE !! Let get into the fashion side of thing. So we can finally begin to switch our gears bit from spring fashion into summer. Summer basic do not have to be boring. Summer is in full effect now so I am sharing quick list of basic summer essentials. Basic can be …

Oh it feel so good to enter into a new month! Happy April! So what are you looking forward to this month? For myself, I am looking forward to warmer weather and starting a real life business. It going to be a better month certainly. So what is happening in April ?In today’s post I am sharing my reflections form the last month, Spring trends , and sharing my own personal goals for the month of April! Let’s get into. Related:  What’s Happening, March? FASHION BLURB… WHAT’S HAPPENING? WHAT ON TREND OR IN STYLE… ESPECIALLY IN APRIL !! Finally spring is here and I am elated to swap out my clothes. I have been wearing a lot o f my spring essential. However, let switch gears and talk about the cool trends . First lets switch decades. The 70’s is definitely making statement this spring. Platforms heels, lapel vest, or flare and fringe! Next, bright green and oversaturated hues giving us what we need, COLOR! You can bring the pop of color to your oversized shirts, purse, and/or dresses. Overall, I am loving the spring trends! I am going to make a statement on this platform. Here is a LIST of …

Happy December! How was your holiday? I really hope last month was a good one for you. Let me tell you, we are in the final stretch. Certainly we are going to make it all count. It going to be great month for sure . I feel like December is going to be full sparkle. It time to refocus and make each day count. I plan to spend time with my family, and also work on how I communicate with others. Honestly, last month was a very hard for me. On the happy side of things, I found LOVE. Then on the other side, I had to deal with coping with my anxiety, and being vulnerable. November was heaving month but I thankful for every moment. Although it was hard, I still learned a lot to be better for myself. So let’s get into this blog. In today’s post I am keeping it brief I am reflecting and sharing my personal goals for the moth of December! Related: First of November PERSONAL NOTE/ GOALS LETS REFLECT FIRST, MADE A LOT OF CHANGES LAST MONTH 🙂 Last month as a mention before was hard one. Anxiety seem like it know when …

Dear Diary… I want to welcome you all my diary. Where I will share all of my personal thoughts and things that I struggle. Self Advocacy is personal skillset that I struggle with all of my life. I can only remember a handful of times that I actually stood up for myself. Most of the time I avoid confrontation and anything causing me to feel uncomfortable. Anyway I was reintroduce to the topic of self advocacy in therapy. For the past few months my mental wellness journey has uncover a lot of things. One being that I rarely ever stand up for myself… In other words, why do I struggle with self advocacy/ standing up for myself In today’s diary post, I am going to share my thoughts of self advocacy and why at times it was hard for me. Self advocacy is the act of standing up for oneself, or views or interest. I like to think of it as standing up for your wants and needs. LifeTime Struggle With Self Advocacy As far as I can remember standing up for myself was always a hard thing for me to do. I am people pleaser so I always wanted …

Happy Wednesday everyone. How have you been doing?  Are you making through the stay at home orders &  the social distancing? For me, I trying to make it. Some day are certainly better than others. To be honest, I am so happy to be in a new month because March has been the longest year in history. We are certainly in a new norm now, and I actively trying to get adjusted to it all. So I happy to get back to blogging! On today’s post I am reflecting, sharing my personal goals, latest fashion style & trends, and a brief blog note for the month of April.. As of lately, I have been trying to find many ways  to keep me calm and ease my anxiety in March.  I have been at Club Quarantine almost every night with Dj DNice, I meditate with a few locals LIVE , and I join the TikTok craze. In this time I definitely trying to keep my mind calm. March was so no way near what I expect it to be, however I am going to make the best of April. Related: March First… So for me, I going find all the positive …

Happy Monday everyone! How was the month of February for you? Did you enjoy your extra day? Well the month of February treated me pretty good. On today’s post I am reflecting, sharing my personal goals, latest fashion style & trends, and a brief blog note for the month of March. For me, February seem like it was the longest month ever. It was good but certainly long. Fashion wise I tried some new brands; those pieces were great. On the blog tip, it was the one of the most successful blog months I had.  And personally, I was a social butterfly. I went on date. Hehe lol. Overall it was a great month and I was not sweating over the small stuff, just living life.  Related : February First… So the month of March  is going to be lit. I am being intentional and speaking positivity into the universe. To add to the “lituation” it is Women’s History Month.  Yass sis. What a time to be a woman;  a black woman at that.  Let the month of March commence. Yet again, I have some great content plan, and fashion on the horizon. Let’s go March. Fashion Note It is …

Happy Monday! How was your January for? As most of y’all would say “January was a trial, I’m going start again in February”. Sis, I get it! January towards the end was really heavy. It certainly left most of us in a whirlwind of emotions. On today’s post I am reflecting, sharing my personal goals, latest fashion style & trends, and a brief blog note. For me, January was full of excitement, chill, with some sadness. However, I was able to celebrate my life. I turned 30 and brought in my birthday in Vegas with some of my closest friends. To add to the excitement I shared my 30 thoughts on turning 30. So many thoughts, to check it out click here.  I had a lot of fun and overcome with a lot of emotions. With our beloved, Kobe and daughter Gigi’s  death on our shoulder it certainly put us all in state of shock and disbelief. The tragic death of those in the helicopter brought me back to reality. Life is so fragile. Our life is so precious.  I learned that we need to value our time on this planet. We all have an expiration date, so we need …

Today is the Big 3-0! Happy birthday to me! I am especially thankful to see another year. Today I celebrate my birthday, my life, and very big milestone. Just this time last year, I was writing that I was afraid to get older. Nothing like a young person telling you, 30 is old. Sheesh I would believe them. I was in this weird place about it because the world tells you by 30 you should have all together and figured out, or you hit expiration date on a personal level. What kinda of bs is that? Anyway, I told myself that I was going to embrace my new life, and not get caught up in premature thoughts on being a 30 year old. It is just another great day for me! 30s are definitely the new twenties. Life is going to get better at this point. On today’s post I am sharing 30 thoughts on being a 30 year old! I’m not getting older, I’m getting better! 30 Thoughts On Turning 30 1. Age is a state of mind. I am thirty but that does not make me old. If you believe and tell people you are old… inevitably you …