Enjoying the Simple Thing in Life
So here is the story and how I got to a happy place from a pineapple. So 5 days prior to all of this happiness in these pictures I learn that I only had few dollars left in my bank account. I was so hurt because I still needed to pay a couple a bills and the due date was right around the corner. I honestly did not know what to do. I called my mom crying on the phone because I knew I messed up ! I was having to much fun and not watching my money. So my money was official “funny”. I had to ask my parents for the money … Noooooo!!! I hate asking my parents for money because I feel like I can’t handle my business without coming to them. For the past few of days I have been counting my money… making sure I don’t overdraft my account. Anywho, I plan to get my financial back together. I been getting great tips for the Broke Millennial book. Also, I plan to create another savings account (nest egg). So when hard time hit I am not drastically impacted. Let me get back to the story… SO I was so sad and felt down and out. I could not enjoy anything because I did not have the money to do so. No going to the bar, no eating out, and no shopping . The consequences of my action. This left me really SAD! Feel like a failure. Like man I can keep my finances in check…
After all that I got invited to event at The Artist Village Detroit. I use to go there a long time to ago when I was younger. Anyway I got invited by my blogger friend, Leah. I was trying to make the best of my situation. All the vendors and there items were so beautiful. Here comes the pineapple…. So I mustard up some money to get this Pineapple smoothie drink that everybody was talking about from the Motor City Java & Teas House. I started not to get it…. like you don’t have any money to be giving away right now. I got it away. So I had this pineapple smoothie and it really made my day. The drink was delicious. At this point I was filled with so much joy. All in my spirit and heart. Really how can a drink do it? This simple little pineapple made me feel so good. It was not just about the pineapple, the small pineapple brought me to the conclusion that I can still enjoy my life. Yea I am broke but money alone does not define my happiness. Money does make life easier but never can define your happiness. It is the simple things in life that we take for granted and don’t even realize it. Being able to hang out with friends, walking, our sight…. the simple things.
So my point to this story is to enjoying the simple things in life.
That simple little pineapple really did it for me. I totally forgot that I was flat broke, that I needed to get root canal, and all the others stuff that had me worrying. I forgot about the all the frustration that come along with adulthood. I enjoyed my life. I had so much fun that day with my friend. Then we took pictures!!! A blast !!!! In all honesty you do not have to spend all of your money to have a good time. It really the simple things that bring us so much ! I believe that was the lesson that God is trying to get across to me.
slow down and enjoy the simple pleasures in life
This little pineapple smoothie did it for me! I remember to be thankful and appreciate for the small things in life..
The little things definitely add up to big happiness.
Location: The Artist Village in Detroit
Photos: Take by Leah @lvernon2000 and Mia @miasatu
let me know in the comments below what are some of the simple pleasure in life you enjoy?
Wow can you believe it ! The months are going by so fast. May has been a great month for Fashionlayn. I got a chance to hang out with Eloquii and celebrate the new store opening at Twelve Oaks Mall. In addition, I went to a few other events. I got a chance to try on high end clothes with 11 Honore and Jadore Detroit, and I got center with Femology and Lululemon. I had a blast this month. Networking with other women and brands really put me in a better mind state. I feel more confident now to reach out to brand. Also I feel like Fashionlayn is finally making a small dent. So it is time to get the ball rolling. Its June and I am catching up. I got a lot of things to look forward to this month. More events, collaborations, and goals that need to be met. This month I am taking care of business. Focus and dive in deep into my creativity.
This month is all about color. Yes it is Pride Month and I want to focus on all the colors of the rainbow when it comes to my fashion style. I want to incorporate more color into my wardrobe. If you follow my Instagram.. you should if your not… my closet lately has been made out of yellow and sometimes black. When I get hooked on a color I ride the wave too long. Yellow is my color. Anywho I want to get more solid colors and prints into my collections. On another note.. this month is all about swimwear. I want to take a few picture in my swimsuit. So this is the mood getting myself in a few more swimsuit
For the blog I want to focus on being a expert on what love. Fashion, self care, and Detroit. This month for the blog I have a planned blog collaboration with Leah V, the creator of Beauty and the Muse. So excited and every time we link we always create magic. Also on the blog I want to think about ways to create my email list. So stay tuned I have some cool things coming to Fashionlayn. Lastly, I am going to be go getter instead of waiting for brands to come to me. No matter how small I am as blogger/ influencers I am going to put myself out there somebody will bite.
Personal Note/ Goals
Now for this month I did a lot of great things for blog however personally I made a few mistakes when it came to my finances. So this month I want to focus on getting my savings together and start budgeting again for personal accounts and blog.
- Holding myself accountable
- Reach out to 2 brands for possible collaboration
- Open another Savings account and create a nest egg
- Finish book: “The Coldest Winter Ever” by Sistah Souljah
- Start reading “Broke Millennial” by Erin Lowry
- Not getting addicted to my bad story
What do you have plan for June ?
Let me know in the comment section below !
Have you heard the phrase… “Doubt kills more dream than failure ever will” ? Yeah I came across this quote on Pinterest and it really got me thinking about self doubt and how easy we can fall to it. Doubt can make you lack confidence in your abilities to accomplish something. It hold you back from doing great things. We all were given potential to do something great with our lives. However we still doubt ourselves.
Why do you doubt ourselves in the first place ?
- Fear that we can’t sustain.
- Habitual doubter – It’s habit – sidenote: it take 21 days to break a habit.
- We lack the skills or the experiences
- Not putting the past behind us
- We believe what others day
- Surround by people who doubt themselves
- Comfort Zone/ Complacent
All these things can make you doubt yourself. Doubt your potential and then it can kill your dream ! So listen we do not have time for the dream killing or the dream killers. Doubt definitely kills dreams more than failure. Doubt will have you thinking all negative thought on why something can not happen for you. Listen: Believe in yourself… Im going to say it again. Believe in yourself. You can do anything that you put your mind. That might sound cliche but it the truth.
How do we stop doubting ourselves
- Stay inspired: No matter if you truly believe in what your doing you have to have that little push to keep us going. So do what you have to do to keep you inspire to keep going. Literally it inspiration everywhere you just need to receptive to it.
- Stop comparing yourself: I think I have said these few times in different post but you have stop comparing yourself to others and what they are doing. I know it hard because you want to be great too. However time has it on agenda for you. You make yourself feel inadequate.
- Be aware when you are being your worst critic: I think you are selling yourself short when you over criticized
- Postive affirmations: I like to read positive and motivational quotes to keep in the right head space when I am feeling down.
“Self Doubt is the anchor that keeps our ships from sailing”.
On the Fashion Tip:
I feel like I am bring a spring denim look to the table. Of course you already know I have an addiction to graphic tees. It just so me ! Denim can be done anyway. This is a simply everyday look. Why did get this WOMAN graphic tees? Simply I got it because I am woman.
Shop My Look:
Plus “Woman” Graphic Tee// Boohoo – LINK
JORDVN X RYVN (Jordan), a Detroit Photographer, who took these amazing photos of me. His work is beautiful and he capture the moment so lovely. Thanks again
Instagram: @hecutsa|Facebook: Jordan X RYVN
Location: Royal Oak, Michigan
So my dearest readers and myself believe in yourself and your dream. Doubt kills dream and we don’t have time for it. Your dream matters. So stop doubting yourself and believe in that dream and make it a reality !
push forward. chase the dream.
Wow its the day after Easter. Can you believe it was Easter Sunday, April Fools Day, and rent is due all at the same time. Wow !! Last month went my way I can say. I was organize and I noticed how many things I say that accomplish. I learn that accountability is important when it comes to being a blogger and just real life stuff ! So yes, I knocked all my personal goals out the park last month and I am excited to keep this momentum going in April. In April Sexual Assault Awareness Month, this something we really need to focus on. Also make sure we address with all women and men, especially with our women of color. So its definitely going to be address on the blog. Lastly the fashun.. oh how I love fashion. I want to take it a step further on with my look.
My wardrobe consist of denim jeans, graphic tees, black jeggings, and dresses! Thats really it, my staples to my everyday looks. However I still feel like I am dressing like Alayna the college student. It is time to grow. Again, I keep stressing how much I want to grow up when it comes to fashion. So that is the plan is to grow up. I still want to be myself however just advance my look. On the flip side, I was flipping through the April 2018 InStyle magazine, and I came across a spread about mixing some of the hottest hues caught on the fashion runways. Omg I was so inspired ! So yes we are bring all that color to blog! For the month of a April yes we are still keeping the focus on spring fashion. However I am intrigued by vibrant colors, and a utilitarian look.
For the blog this month I am in the giving spirit. April is the month for paying it forward. so yes I want to offer a few things to you sis (my reader). So stay tuned on my blog and social media accounts. I guarantee you will see a giveaway, and a few freebies! On another good note I excite to say that I finally got a chance to collaborate with an awesome brand. I can’t wait to show what I am working on.
Personal Note/ Goals
On a personal note last month went really well for me. I clean up my room and put a lot of things back in order for myself. I completed my fasting and even lost a little weight. YAY !!
- Finish reading “The Hate U Give” . Very awesome novel
- Gain more self awareness for my actions and what I say
- Face my fear. I am getting my wisdom teeth remove the 1st of May. I am so scared !
- Consistency on the blog. Stick to my schedule!
- Continue drinking 64oz of water daily
- Enhance my look
So let makes this month great sis!